Do hurt people attract hurt people?

Hey guys,it’s been a crazy few weeks for ya boy.I’ve been noticing a lot of relationship issues as of late.By no means am I saying that I know it all or claiming to be a professional but something must be going on in the universe because folks are acting wild in these streets.My intelligent cousin so wisely stated that hurt people attract hurt people,is this true?
I have friends coming to me for relationship advice,I have friends who only communicate with me for a brief season about their issues and when I try to check on them,no answer.I get frustrated with both of these examples at different points because both are extremely heavy on the brain.I wish I had all the answers because I care a great deal about my friends.Guys,am I crazy or is the planets out of alignment?I hate this weird energy.